
Profession Loss
Professions define many individuals. They may present themselves as teachers, engineers, lawyers, or nurses, indicating that their employment defines them. Retirement changes self-perception.
Retirees may feel lost without their professions. If they value their career, they may also struggle with low self-esteem. Retirees sometimes feel insignificant after leaving their employment.
Retirement lets people reinvent themselves. Retirees may pursue their interests and develop a self-identity outside of work. Liberating yet difficult.
Redefining self-identity may entail discovering hidden interests and taking on family obligations like grandparenting or volunteering. Self-discovery requires reflection, investigation, and perseverance.
Losing a professional identity may hurt. Retirement brings grief, fear, and loss. Some grieve once their careers expire. Having friends, family, and mental health specialists around may help. Retiree clubs foster community and understanding. Mindfulness and relaxation may reduce stress and improve mental health.
It’s important to remember that these sentiments are normal and that with time and the correct tactics, you may establish a new, rewarding identity in retirement.
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Thank You for sharing this information on Aging. I Loved my Job, I had a reason too. It helped me to provide for my Family. I missed out on spending more time with my Children, I Regret that now. Life is too short. I know though I did the right thing, to be a Good Provider as a Good Father. Everything I read in your Article is Dead On ! I know now, I just have to work harder for myself to except the change and get through the final phase of my life. Thank you Again for your Important Information !
This is eye opening read that has given guidance and support as I journey through retirement. Thank you .
Great insight and advice.
Very good article. After being retired for 14 months I started a new full time job. I am excited about the new challenges Iam facing. Thanks again for the article on retirement.
This has happened to me.I feel worthless and upset,due to 6 back surgeries its hard to do most jobs or volunteering if you cannot sit.I can sit answer phones and i was the Chief Excutive officer to my company . I retired at 66. Then moved away to be near my grandchildren. I worked at one company for 35 yeas. I was a ten hat person ,did a lot of duties . I am so grateful now i had that wonderful career.. It as a very big adjustment for me. I did volunteer at a hospital for 4 and half years. I learned how to operate the Board with incoming patients. Then one day My lady head of volunteers asked me to run the out patient surgery center. It went well for me . I am the kind of person that wants to keep sharp and busy. I need a job volunteering putting papers together helping doing something constuctive
When I was in my early forties, I was forced to not work for two years due to a non-compete clause after selling a business. I had the time of my life, skiing two days a week with my wife, going on bike rides and playing tennis. I have been fully retired for 15 years and again I am having the time of my life. I ski, play tennis and pickleball several days a week with friends. I volunteer at a Thrift Store at least twice a month. I am on a non-profit and on a finance committee of the thrift store.
Everything that you say about retirement also applies to your working life if that is all one does.
I think when your husband or wife has died living alone is not a cup of tea. Trying to find another mate your age if you are still quite active, bowling swimming walking that is very stressful
This was a timely read that answered a lot of questions and concerns. It’s given me a new course and direction to take moving forward. THANKS
Great article. Good advice. I retired 9 years ago and for the first two years just traveled and relaxed. I always enjoyed playing poker and I took a class and became a dealer. I love it. The excitement is intoxicating. I also spend time with the grandkids and make sure to take a summer vacay with them while they still enjoy me. I also see them for school pick up once a week so that they see me regularly. It’s great. Play word games, exercise daily. Life is good.